After just coming out of a 4 year relationship with a a person i beleive is a narcissist /sociopath i needed to read this ..
During, and especially after a relationship with a Sociopath, you have a need for validation. And these ‘need’s’ can be one or more of the following
- your not the crazy one~ a Sociopath can almost have you on the brink of believing you truly are the crazy one. This is done with repeated words & actions, breaking your common sense down, creating a dependency on them {ie: if you did this or that, they will praise you, if you said this or that, they in turn said or did something kind}..
- how can they lie, straight faced, and think I’m going to believe it ~because if you believed just one of their lies, they continue on as there is no consequences for them {in their minds}
- more words of ‘I will change, we can work this out’~ this is usually said, and then followed up with ‘but your the…
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